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May 15, 2006 23:23:58 GMT
Post by luvlydory on May 15, 2006 23:23:58 GMT
World Cup games scheduled on my birthday. must be tough !!
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May 15, 2006 23:27:19 GMT
Post by Col ISIHAC. on May 15, 2006 23:27:19 GMT
The only hats being bought on my birthday will be fecking England hats. I have now had Scotland and England World Cup games scheduled on my birthday. It's only a matter of time before i get a Wales one Not in your lifetime, Boyo! And Dory - the act of transporting three pishhead strangers (Well, two strangers and a third Pishhead) renders you liable for nutter status, in a rather herioc stylee! ;D
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May 15, 2006 23:35:01 GMT
Post by luvlydory on May 15, 2006 23:35:01 GMT
I always knew I was. i just didnt know if anyone else ever noticed, as i'm not in the habit of publicising myself !
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May 16, 2006 7:37:16 GMT
Post by terrierdave on May 16, 2006 7:37:16 GMT
All hail our heroine!
And sorry, I can't afford to sub your non-league ground extravaganza!
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May 16, 2006 9:31:47 GMT
Post by samd on May 16, 2006 9:31:47 GMT
Knew it was only a matter of time before you got hooked on drugs!
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May 16, 2006 11:23:46 GMT
Post by ambersalamander on May 16, 2006 11:23:46 GMT
I was going to say something in reply to DJ's post, but now it's a couple of pages ago it hardly seems relevant any more! I have had my own non-league ground tour idea, but...
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May 16, 2006 14:00:42 GMT
Post by roofless on May 16, 2006 14:00:42 GMT
Right let me get this straight Ruth, some bloke you're not really interested in has been trying with limited success to get you to do the *audible whistle and hand movement* and you've held off for a couple of weeks, but finally relented under the pressure. You may or may not have been involved in a night of *audible whistle and hand movement* and then he's blown you out. Yes? You see the problem isn't that men are all wankers it's that women aren't nearly wankerish enough to balance it out. What you should have done is *audible whistle and hand movement* as soon as you found out he was mildly interested and then bombed him out first. I mean it's not as if lads are looking for meaningful relationships and you should know by now not to believe they are even if they say they are. Instead of being nice to men, stay casual, if they stay they stay, if they go then so what, there'll be another, but don't take it personally as it's just what happens to everybody. No that's really not it at all! Some bloke that I met and we went out all happy la li la for a while as just pracitcally stopped talking to me now.... I can't work out if he's suddenly decided he can't be bothered or what, I know I;ve just told him I'm moving down south, I hope it is that that has prompted the change in character, because easiest thing there is just for us both to say well it was fun, might see you when I come back next year. I don't know, but I just think it's only fair to tell a girl when you have stopped being interested!
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May 16, 2006 16:32:22 GMT
Post by ambersalamander on May 16, 2006 16:32:22 GMT
*cough* cambridge *cough*... oops, got a bit of a sore throat here, excuse me... Oh dear. I have my own views on this but I'm not sure if anyone else shares them! You see, I don't do casual. If I do *audible whistle and hand movement* with someone, it's because we're already in an established relationship and I love the person in question. And, preferably, that person feels the same way about me. A lot of men I've been involved with -nice men - have not required *audible whistle and hand movement* to be interested in me. If they do, then I'm not interested in them. Simple as that. People do say "be casual, don't be too nice" but that's out of character for me and I'm buggered if I'm going to change who I am just to get someone interested in me, because then it's not me they're interested in, it's *audible whistle and hand movement*. I agree with Ruth. It's common courtesy to let someone know what's going on. My last relationship was, quite frankly, one of the most difficult experiences on my life because the other half of said relationship would never, ever tell me when something was wrong until it was too late to fix it- despite his promise that he would do so before it was too late. If anything annoyed him, he would simply shut himself off and ignore me for days at a time. This would really piss me off, pardon my French, because it is nice to speak to one's boyfriend once in a while and even more so when you feel there's something bugging him. Roofless, dearest, the only thing for it is to say to him something like "So what's going on- are you holding back because I'm moving away, or is it something else?" He's not being straight with you, so you have to be straight with him. If neither of you does, you'll never sort anything out.
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May 16, 2006 20:51:53 GMT
Post by DJhinckley on May 16, 2006 20:51:53 GMT
Some bloke that I met and we went out all happy la li la for a while as just pracitcally stopped talking to me now well that makes it even more simpler then. just f*ck him off and start again. When I say be casual, I mean don't take it too personally. Just think of it as one of the 'unsuitables' out of the way. Cross him off the list and try again. Let's face it, all of those posting on this board that are 'married two kids and BHS M&S' if they're honest will admit to plenty of *audible whistle and hand movement* (there really should be an emoticon for that!) previous with plenty of people and then completely f*cking up the deal. It happens. Nobody rides their bike the first time without falling off. Actually that's a bad euphemism but you know what I mean. I married for 12 years now and together for 15, and both me and the wife are fully aware that we had lives before we met each other. Look at the statistics - there are tens of thousands of people that will be attracted to you, of them 20% will also like your personality, of those 20% will be able to live with your annoying habits, and of those 10% would actually bother to try and stay together when you have your inevitable arguments over f*ck all. So statistaically there are approximatley at least 50 people that would be a perfect match for you. The meaning of life is the journey trawling through the other 9950 odd crossing them off the list before you get to one of the 50...
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May 16, 2006 22:02:39 GMT
Post by ojiveojive on May 16, 2006 22:02:39 GMT
Excuse my ignorance but what the f u c k does *audible whistle and hand movement* mean? Perche non parlate inglese, eh? Non capisco questo *audible whistle and hand movement*. Se e ficky ficky allora dite ficky ficky. Dite che cosa volete dire, eh? Ficky ficky filtro di parolaccia
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May 16, 2006 22:45:12 GMT
Post by medibot on May 16, 2006 22:45:12 GMT
Think innuendo ojiveojive
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May 17, 2006 0:14:08 GMT
Post by ambersalamander on May 17, 2006 0:14:08 GMT
I dunno, it's what DJ does with his wife so i went along with it I agree with a lot of what DJ says except for one thing, and that's clearly because he's a man and Ruth and I are women and would tend to look at the situation in a different light. When that sort of thing happens, men tend to write it off, because it hasn't reached a stage of emotional involvement. I wouldn't write him off if I didn't know what had caused his stand-offishness but had an inkling it was because I was moving away. I'd find out BEFORE writing him off, because if he SHOULD be written off for whatever reason, then asking him won't harm anything because there's nothing left to harm. On the other hand, just because he's being like that does not mean he's not a potential good match! He might be perfect for you, and might be acting in the same way because he feels that way about you too and doesn't want to get too emotionally involved so you don't break his heart when you move away! Only one way to find out.
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May 18, 2006 10:34:53 GMT
Post by luvlydory on May 18, 2006 10:34:53 GMT
[quote author=djhinckley The meaning of life is the journey trawling through the other 9950 odd crossing them off the list before you get to one of the 50...[/quote] I thought the meaning of life was 42 ?!
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May 18, 2006 10:41:54 GMT
Post by luvlydory on May 18, 2006 10:41:54 GMT
All hail our heroine! And sorry, I can't afford to sub your non-league ground extravaganza! spoilsport, some people are just NO FUN
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May 18, 2006 14:19:57 GMT
Post by terrierdave on May 18, 2006 14:19:57 GMT
Who said I was no fun - perhaps my type of fun just costs less! ;D
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