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Post by Col ISIHAC. on May 19, 2006 15:48:28 GMT
I'm SO glad I've never dated a guy like you. To be fair, lets face it, our personalities are so different that any kind of date arrangements would never happen. Splendid. You know; I'm SOoooo glad we got that sorted
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Post by roofless on May 19, 2006 16:56:55 GMT
I've considered lesbianism recently... I don't think it's something I could go with, I think I'd make one an awesome girlfriend except at the physical side! As much as all men appear to turn into dickwads after you've known them for a certain (varying) period of time, I could really really never become a lesbanen.
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Post by ambersalamander on May 19, 2006 21:39:36 GMT
Would that we could choose our sexuality! You've raised some interesting points there DJ, although I think you misunderstood some of the things I was saying (which is easy, because I waffle) As I said before, i've no problem with any partner of mine looking at porn (the fact that I don't want to hear about it isn't insecurity, it's merely an incompatibility because I feel differently about it. As I said, I'm not stupid enough to think that a man wants the women he sees in porn!) I think you're right about women needing not to be so insecure -insecurity is so unattractive- but I still maintain that society in general seems to encourage female insecurity. Just a point of view I have. It's about a balance between not giving a sh*t and common sense really. If I went out on the pull with far too much make-up, greasy hair, hairy armpits on display and too-small clothes that made my flesh bulge out at every opportunity, I wouldn't expect to score with the kind of guy I like. Is that insecurity? On the other hand, if i'm in an established relationship with him, he can take me as he finds me- if he cares about things like that more than he does about being with me, he's not worth a toss. The thing about what to wear- that's because if I'm going out with my other half, it pleases me to know that he thinks I look great and is proud to be with me. That's because in all my relationships making the other person happy is very important to me and makes me happy too. I wouldn't expect him to care THAT much about what I wear, I just like to give him the opportunity to make a choice of what he likes best! (If I totally disagree, then I wear what the f*** i like and there is no WAY i will give myself grief over it ) By the way DJ, I work in a care home for adults with learning disabilities and severe challenging behaviour. the guys who live there have long since found how to spot a "weak" member of staff and take advantage, so i have learned not to take crap from anyone too! kudos to your missus
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Post by DazaB_WCFC on May 21, 2006 22:06:07 GMT
just in case it fails? and they get sued? dunno. I've been very tempted to date women before, but never have. Partly because I want to have a family naturally (that's just a preference I have) and I don't want to start a relationship KNOWING that it will have to end one day. I'd love to have a family naturally!
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Post by DazaB_WCFC on May 21, 2006 22:14:40 GMT
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Post by DazaB_WCFC on May 21, 2006 22:15:20 GMT
A mate sent it me lol
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Post by ambersalamander on May 21, 2006 23:40:36 GMT
Seen it before but still amusing
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